{"id":3161,"date":"2022-02-22T19:43:05","date_gmt":"2022-02-22T19:43:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lyndahoffman.com\/en-us\/?p=3161"},"modified":"2026-10-13T18:16:16","modified_gmt":"2026-10-13T22:16:16","slug":"what-is-hope-how-do-you-get-more-of-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lyndahoffman.com\/en-us\/what-is-hope-how-do-you-get-more-of-it\/","title":{"rendered":"What is Hope? How do You Get More of it?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

I met my best friend in a philosophy class at Concordia University in 1981. Our professor Ed Egan drilled into us that the word \u2018hope\u2019 is chronically misused and we should never be caught maligning the word ourselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To this day, I hesitate to use the word at all in case someone misunderstands what I\u2019m saying. Over the decades, it\u2019s been a running joke between Sue and me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whenever we hear the word \u201chope\u201d, we look at each other and say in unison: \u201cEgan!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Yes, I\u2019m ready<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Let\u2019s get started!<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
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What is hope? What was Ed talking about?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Hope<\/strong> is the motivation to work toward a meaningful goal. It\u2019s the motor behind the actions you take to create great outcomes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hope<\/strong> is married to reality. The facts about the situation inform your strategies. Without strategies based in reality, hope devolves into wishful thinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hope<\/strong> is a solid commitment to a vision of the future, backed up with action. It\u2019s active and clear. Wishful thinking is passive, devoid of strategy or agency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hope<\/strong> can exist alongside despair. Hope will always show itself again if you persevere along your chosen path.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hope<\/strong> increases agency. Hopeful people actually take actions that are more helpful to themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hope<\/strong> is different from optimism. Hope is strategic action toward a goal, while optimism is a generally positive outlook based on luck or the actions of others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hope<\/strong> provides a powerful dose of motivation when the odds feel daunting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you want to grow more hope?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Create a Hope Plan<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Ask yourself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n